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We tell ourselves stories and read from a script that has been written throughout our lives. Especially between our imprint period in life which is the time between the age of 0-7. This is when we are like sponges, soaking everything up around us. 

We create our version of reality based on our model of the world and what is written in our ‘script’. This is made up from our memories, decisions we have made and that we have seen others around us make, our personality types, our values and beliefs and our attitudes. All of this is forming through our lives and sits with our subconscious mind. We are always acting in accordance with this, even if we are unaware of it.

What happens though, if it becomes outdated and no longer supports us?

Yesterday I was working with my students on releasing limiting beliefs and reprogramming the mind. Sounds a bit posh doesn’t it ‘reprogramming the mind’ basically all this means is to become curious about the model of the world we have created in our version of reality and make changes to it if it is not supporting us. 

When we read from our script (our model of the world) we are then projecting that perception out into the world and that leads to our behaviour and our results in life. 

Yesterday our students were working on limiting beliefs like;

• • Money is hard to make.
  • I am not good enough to have coaching clients.
  • I am not worthy of having success.
  • I cannot do sales.
  • I cannot market myself and be visible.
  • I am not good enough.
  • I am not worthy enough. 

These are the kinds of beliefs we create as we grow up and take in the world around us. We distort the meanings of events and situations and only see what backs up our beliefs. So let’s say someone has seen their parents growing up arguing about money. When it comes to having their own coaching business they are finding it difficult to get clients. 

When you dive deeper into this and become curious about what you are reading and projecting from your script you discover that this experience when growing up has created a deep subconscious belief that making money is evil and causes arguments and upset. 

Unfortunately this is very common. This belief has created a perception which then you project out into the world which leads to your behaviour, and what do you think your behaviour will be? Not making the money you want. Not reaching the goals you have set. Not really believing it is possible. 

The sad truth is that this is the narrative for so many, but it doesn’t have to be this way. 

Yesterday as we came to the end of the work on limiting beliefs, our students had released and changed their scripts from the negative stories they were telling themselves to something they wanted to believe instead, and you could see it in their faces. 

They looked brighter, they were more excited, they had deep breakthroughs.

The work we do within the NLP Practitioner coaching course doesn’t just teach you how to be a exceptional coach, it also supports you to make these changes too.

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